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Communicating a sense of personal power comes from a belief that you can reach your goals in your own way. Powerful people empower other and encourage others to express themselvees openly. You communicate a sense of personal power by developing these traits:
Authority: Authority is inner confidence--a trust in your skills and abilities. It comes from an attitude of "I can do that." "I deserve success." This attitude radiates outward as you assert your rights, honestly ask for what you want and need, and develop a willingness to give to others and yourself. Assertiveness: Assertive behavior is active, direct, and honest. It communicates an impression of self-respect and respect for others. By being assertive, we view our wants, needs, and rights as equal with those of other. An assertive person wins by influencing, listening, and negotiating so that other people choose to cooperate willingly. Accessibility: The powerful personis a master networker. Good networking increases your visibility and gives you a valuable circle of people from whom you can give and receive support and information. Image: You communicate power through you image. Do you project an image consistent with strong leadership? stand talland walk proudly, remenbering that you have value as a peron. When you meet others, make direct contact and keep your handshake firm and friendly. Clearly state who you are and what you do. Communication habits: Take a deep breath to project a firm voice. Avoid slang, and jargon, and vocal hesitations that can hinder effective communication. Use only the body movements and gestures necessary to make your point, no more. Learn how to write clearly and briefly.
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